tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3309101698844833230.post501558780596823005..comments2023-07-24T02:59:55.707-07:00Comments on constantly relocating: Conflict and resolutionSTQhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09567961029603016972noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3309101698844833230.post-18874707895886812982010-02-17T16:27:25.932-07:002010-02-17T16:27:25.932-07:00I, too, avoid conflict. I get very quiet and leav...I, too, avoid conflict. I get very quiet and leave the room. Sometimes I rant and rave to dear, sweet hubby about a situation, but never to the person involved in the conflict. But, there are exceptions to every rule. Major exception was our first born. It seemed to be an unwritten rule that we had to yell at each other periodically. That cleared the air. Poor second born would disappear during the shouting matches and could later be found sitting in the closet crying. I assured her it didn't mean the love between the yellers was gone. (perhaps wearing a bit thin at that precise moment, though). Hubby was mostly out of town. He never yells either...but then again he seldom says anything, so I'm not sure that counts. Now that all of us no longer live under the same roof, silence has replaced conflict. Sometimes the silence is mighty loud.Miz C (and Burton)https://www.blogger.com/profile/05490502929222983986noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3309101698844833230.post-88694003611875387032010-02-13T10:28:35.879-07:002010-02-13T10:28:35.879-07:00I don't know if I could hold up my end of the ...I don't know if I could hold up my end of the bargain is I tried to institute that here.Kristinehttp://www.thewoodlife.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3309101698844833230.post-85212503899568633952010-02-06T21:24:20.742-07:002010-02-06T21:24:20.742-07:00I'm with you, STQ! No conflict, please. I...I'm with you, STQ! No conflict, please. I'm also big on not traveling to exotic places looking for peace. I like your idea of enforcing a conflict-free zone. You can do it. Try sanctions. "I only feed individuals who speak graciously." ;)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com